Why don’t I like shopping at the mall anymore?

I love the buzz of the city where people sell their stuff on the local markets or in the local shops. While being a teen, shopping was always a big part of my social life. I would meet my friends and we would spend the whole Saturday at the shopping center or at the mall […]



Happiness is….

Happiness is when I can do the things I wasn’t allowed to do before. I grew up with so many restrictions that I feel in one way my childhood got stolen from me. But doing them now it gives me this overwhelming feeling of happiness. Feeling I am free and finally can do as I […]


Happy Women’s Day

Women’s Day was before a day that I didn’t think so much about then that there was a group of women who rebelled against their husbands, and the state ruled by men, to have equal rights as men. The day was often talked about with a lot of contempt for those who dared to go […]


Broken, damaged and in a dark place

Blogging about the past is kind of hard. Sometimes I wonder that maybe I shouldn’t have started this. Especially when I get negative responses. Often from the people, I have hurt in the past. They remind me of who I was before. That still hurts and I am ashamed of who I was and it […]


7 signs of spiritual abuse

Sometimes I wonder how people get the control and get people to follow them almost blindly. Wondering if we actually want to use our brains and think for ourselves or rather let other people do the thinking for us. Because a person in a leading position doesn’t really have any authority unless we give them […]


Why do I blog?

From the reactions, I got from people, I notice that some of the readers do not really understand why I started blogging and why now. This month it is 6 years ago I made the hardest choice of my life and left the cult and the faith I grew up in. You can read more […]


OMG my first concert in an arena

In a lifetime there are a lot of first times. And the last few years I have done a lot already that I wasn’t allowed to do before. In the Message, most of any entertainment was kind of forbidden since it was from the Devil. Clapping and cheering was idol worshipping. Worldly music was off […]